9. Charge Neutral. Another important when you reveal something strong, neutral charge. Most of us are afraid of strong feelings or point of conflict in a relationship. I often hear people respond by defending themselves (to a perceived attack), explaining themselves, counter-attack, kill, or walk away. Of course, the relationship remains stuck in this swamp of distrust and fear. Rather than reacting and having your feelings flowing all over the place, or lethal, practice charging neutral. Communicate calmness, not only in the tone of your voice, but also in how you carry your body. Do not talk with your voice charges. Control your voice! Say what you have to say, state the truth and do it directly and calmly. You can do this, after you master your fears. This will dramatically change the flow of relationships. You will be able to show something big, without making a big deal of it. You will control you. This not only feels good, but your partner believe that you will fly or fall apart. You will experience your personal power. This makes you very attractive. People do not really trust someone who knows their personal power and how to use it for the welfare of yourself and others? Your partner will love the fact that he can trust you consistently to operate from the “quiet center,” remain engaged, not back and tell the truth with confidence and serenity.