Before marriage and during courtship, the relationship seemed miraculous. Every day is a heart-warming experience. It felt so real and there’s nothing like awakened from a dream. This state of excitement took total control of us, blocking any likeness of the rational mind. Hypnotized helpless, we become a servant of the Lord of the oppressed, our own desires. We absorb this form of fraud similar to a sponge that absorbs water which eventually turned into tears.

Leaving our desire to be a criterion for making decisions we confront the most destructive form of relationship. Becomes impossible to be fair, just, fair, impartial, objective, unbiased, objective or impartial with others or ourselves. If the family structure is the foundation of society, then we must rethink our strategy when approaching a serious relationship.

As the reality of dawn and rushed into the dusk slowly faded fraud, reflective sense, it becomes clear we are in a dating relationship is not desired. It is not surprising that our partner disposition changes. He / she went from being too good to be too aggressive, mentally and physically. Decreased sexual desire, excessive spending dissolve, the truth becomes a lie, common interests through changes in the two strangers to each other at night, and the list of fraud continues.