One of every two marriages end in divorce. Millions of Americans filed for divorce. As divorce rates continue to rise in America, dating relationship becomes more popular.

Social scientists have brought us to the wrong direction, because they embrace one of the solutions to important problems. They send forth a message of error associated with dating relationships. This message by social scientists will continue to mislead the people who sincerely want to build a healthy dating relationships, with the hope of eternal embrace marriage. In this article, we will explore the truth behind the divorce rate soaring. In the search for drugs, we spend billions of dollars each year pursuing the illusion of a solution.

In the previous article, “The Art of Selection”, we discussed how the backward selection process when choosing our dating partner. Soul selfish perverts the meaning of dating someone that can lead to marriage with a focus on imagination and desire. Taking a step further; let us look at an imaginary pleasure and safety. Caught in the fairy tale syndrome, we pursue dating and relationships in order to receive the immediate future and the satisfaction of our dating partner. The soul of selfish acts that undermine the foundation of a healthy relationship from the beginning. Potential boyfriend committed reprehensible acts to make a good impression. He / she gives a misleading representation of yourself, because it was too good, luxury spending, became aware of one’s physical appearance, always appearing honest, after marathon late-night phone, and display an attitude common concern and common interest while painting a beautiful picture of fraud . In an effort to ensure the acquisition of his / her desire, she resorts to fraud to enjoy a personal relationship that eventually ended in disaster. This activity is the beginning of the collapse of the unity of marriage before the marriage potential partner said, “I do”.